Innocence of Youth
The magical age of childhood is one of purity and innocence. The simple trust that a child places in his parents, the simple faith a child places in G-d is the essence of holiness and beauty. It is precisely this innocence that serves as a foundation for adulthood and life.
The child’s perception is created by the purity of his young imagination. His mind and thoughts are clean and unadulterated. He has not yet been compromised by the perception of his intellect, emotions and worldly experience.
The aim of his parents and educators should be to preserve as much of this innocence as humanly possible. To encourage the child to carry the simplicity of youth into his future and life.
Gifts from G-d
As parents we must always remember that G-d has entrusted us with a special gift and stipulated that we be responsible for its care. Our children belong to G-d. He gave them to us and asked that we raise them to the best of our ability.
Remembering that our children are not our possessions, but belong to G-d, allows the parent to let go when the time is right. The greatest gift a parent can bestow upon a child is the freedom to go their own way and explore their own path.
The greatest Nachas (gratification) that a parent can receive comes through watching the child walk his own path but implement the values that the parent has taught him in youth.