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Purim: Jewish Identity

March 16, 2019 – 10:41 pm | 31 views

Can we deny our Jewish identity? This question was a subject of debate among Jews since the advent of the Jewish enlightenment. Reeling under the burden of antisemitism, many Jews concluded that if they were to conform in dress and behavior to the wider population, they would blend in and …

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Vayikra: Love

March 9, 2019 – 9:27 pm |
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True love can only emerge when two people perform acts of love for each other. I am not talking about the shallow love that people describe when they talk about falling in love. That kind of love is skin deep. I am not even talking about the kind of love that results from being kindred spirits who share interests and values. That kind of love is only heart deep. I am talking about the oneness that emerges between husband and wife after decades of marriage. That kind of love is deep, abiding, and pervasive.

This is not the kind of love that you fall into. This is the love that you build slowly and painstakingly over many years. It is a love that merges two people into one in the sense that they can no more separate from each other than they can separate from themselves. This love is not dependent on any factor. It doesn’t matter what the other looks like, dresses like, feels like, or talks like. All that matters, is what the other does for you. If it is consistent and pervasive, the result will be pervasive, abiding, and enduring love. Read the full story »

Pekudei: Relationships

March 2, 2019 – 9:58 pm |
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All relationships are tricky; spouses, siblings, friends, or colleagues, it doesn’t matter. In the course of all relationships, something occurs to make us question the other’s fidelity. Are they really there for us or are they manipulating the relationship for self-gain?
It can be a friend not showing up or a …

Vayakhel: Sleep is Good

February 25, 2019 – 10:32 pm | One Comment | 
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Vayakhel: Sleep is Good
Sleep is good for you, or so they say. But how much sleep is good? Maimonides suggested eight hours—one third of the day. I haven’t met anyone who disagrees with the notion that sleep is good, but I have often wondered why sleep is necessary? Wouldn’t it …

Ki Tisa: The Cruelty of Abuse

February 16, 2019 – 9:56 pm |
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Understanding the Impact
What is it about the abuse of a child that twists and stunts their emotions for life? I know that it does, but why does it? Why does an imbalanced relationship in a time of vulnerability hamper us decades later? Why does neglect in childhood make it difficult …

Ki Tisa: Use Your Head

February 16, 2019 – 9:46 pm |
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Use your head is an idiom that means think things through carefully. Don’t just jump on the bandwagon. Use your head. Think about it, figure out the ramifications and avoid making a mistake.
The Torah says, “When you list the heads of the children of Israel according to their numbers.”[1] What …

Tetzaveh: The Afterlife

February 10, 2019 – 12:14 am |
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Absent
This week we marked the Yahrtzeit of Moses, who passed away on the 7th of Adar, 3488 or 1273 BCE. This was just 33 days before Joshua led the Jews into Israel. We know this because the Jews crossed into Israel on the 13th of Nissan. We also know that …

Terumah: Vertical Logs

February 2, 2019 – 10:04 pm | 2 Comments | 
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Vertical logs are rare in construction. Most log cabins are built with horizontal logs. It is possible to build with vertical logs and there are several advantages to it, for example, vertical logs don’t settle as much as horizontal logs, but there are many disadvantages to building with vertical logs. …

Mishpatim: Finding G-d

January 26, 2019 – 10:39 pm |
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Finding G-d in the synagogue is no big deal, that is where you expect Him to be. Finding G-d in your home can be a little trickier, but still not so surprising. Finding G-d at your place of work or at play, in a social setting, at a party, or …

Yitro: Time for Torah

January 19, 2019 – 9:02 pm |
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We all must make time for Torah, but how much time is a matter of perspective. When G-d gave us the Torah at Sinai, He gave the same Torah to all Jews. We are all bound by the same laws and we all share the same level of access to …